It is the relationship–what is happening between generations–that really matters. Intergenerational activities and programs are a means to building a culture of caring relationships.
Recently, I wrote about designing shared spaces for intergenerational engagement that can foster deep connections. Using an age-integrated, rather than an age-segregated approach, intergenerational shared sites aim to strengthen the support circle surrounding families and communities.
Meaningful intergenerational engagement is at the core of high-quality intergenerational facilities. Beyond providing services, shared sites intentionally foster personal bonds and feelings of affection, support, trust, and companionship. Relationships become an end in themselves as people of different ages engage in shared experiences. This focus on being together with people of different generations in a safe, caring place can foster empathy, mutual learning, and a sense of connectedness.
In these spaces, people of different ages come together to learn, grow, improve and play. These are more than just physical spaces; they have collective meaning for participants of different age groups with a relational focus. Other multigenerational sites are designed to accommodate needs and abilities, not necessarily to promote cross age interaction. This is the distinction between multigenerational and intergenerational shared sites—relationships.
Models for shared sites that focus co-locating services and programs for young children and older adults include:
- Intergenerational community care centers
- Child care centers housed at a retirement community
- Child care centers located in a nursing home
- Kindergarten classrooms located in a nursing home or assisted living facility
- Co-located adult and child daycare center
Models that involve older adults and school-age children, youth or young adults include:
- Schools and senior housing co-located on the same campus
- Intergenerational centers serving specific populations
- Co-located senior centers and schools or Head Start programs
- Intergenerational co-housing
Intergenerational sites share some common characteristics. They are places where:
- Formal and informal Intergenerational interaction occurs on a regular basis, with relationship-building as a primary focus.
- Programming is age -appropriate and inclusive of various abilities, races/ethnicities, and cultures.
- Space is accessible, safe, welcoming for all ages/abilities, and designed to promote cross-age interaction.
- Partners serving children/youth and older adults work collaboratively to plan and implement quality programming.
- Staff understand the needs and strengths of all age groups, best practices in intergenerational programming, and the value of cross-age connections.
- Interdependence, reciprocity, and inclusion are shared values.